I handed my daughter a pad and watched her rush to the airplane bathroom, trying hard not to cry. Five minutes later, a flight attendant said she was asking for me. I found her inside, shaken. “It leaked,” she whispered. I grabbed her sweater so she could tie it around her waist and quietly helped her out. She’s only eleven, but she handled it with grace. A woman across the aisle mouthed, “Good job, Dad.” I smiled, but it wasn’t over yet.

At the hotel, we realized I had forgotten to pack her junior bridesmaid dress. She tried to act like it was okay, but I knew it wasn’t.

We had three hours. I called an Uber, hit multiple stores, and finally found the perfect off-white dress at a tiny boutique. She lit up when she put it on. “I’m glad I’m here with you,” she whispered. At the wedding, my cousin paused his speech to say, “Ephraim, you’re a heck of a dad.” I nearly lost it. Later, a woman told me, “Seeing you two reminded me of my dad. Thank you.”

That night, Talia whispered, “Today was perfect.” And she was right. It wasn’t about perfection—it was about showing up. Messy, awkward, beautiful. Those are the moments that matter.